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Thursday, September 13, 2018

10 Things You Need To Know Before Asking A Lady Out

10 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW BEFORE ASKING A LADY OUT



Many guys have the challenge when It comes to asking the lady they like out, some even like their very close friends but it is quite difficult for them to ask them to be their girlfriends. I am sure that if you are reading this article right now, you might be in the category of those having difficulty in asking your dream lady out. The best thing for you is not to just jump out to ask her swiftly, there are basic things you should know which I would be listing out to you in this article, you may just have to change your mind about it or take a bold step to go ahead.

1. DOES SHE HAVE A SERIOUS CRUSH ON ANOTHER GUY?

This is one thing you should try to find out from her, because if you ask her out and she probably agrees to date you, her mind might not fully be in the relationship, she might be thinking of the other guy more than she is thinking about you. It is not a bad feeling for a lady to have crush on guys that is why I added the word “serious”.

2. WAS SHE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT SHE IS NOT OVER YET?

Probably she was dating a guy and they broke up recently, she might just say yes to you as a consolation. Believe me, if the other guy comes back to beg her again, it is very possible for her to toss you out.

3. DOES SHE REALLY LIKE YOU?

Some guys often confuse a lady’s friendliness for love, this reminds me of the time when I was still in the University, I had a lady friend who was very free and friendly with most guys and most of them started misinterpreting it for “Love”. On her birthday, she got over 20 cakes saying “I Love You” on it. Funny right?

4. DID SHE REALLY BREAK UP FROM HER PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP?

It could be that her present boyfriend travelled to a far place and she got so angry and still want to feel his presence, so might just accept your proposal because she want to fill the gap in her life for the moment before he returns.

 5. DO YOU WANT TO BE WITH HER BECAUSE OF YOUR FRIENDS

Some guys just want to be with a lady because they want to boast to their friends that they are dating a really hot lady not because they really love her, and that is the wrong intention for going to ask her out.

6. DOES SHE WANT TO BE WITH YOU BECAUSE OF HER FRIENDS?

The same way guys want to boast to their friends about having a hot girlfriend, the girls also want to boast to their friends that they are dating someone, so they won’t look like outcasts. It has been a trend for quite some time now.

7. IS SHE A VIRGIN?

Some guys just jump into a relationship without finding out about if she is a virgin or not. Most guys want to be the first to “enter the place”, so after entering and finding out she is not, they get disappointed. Note that it is not all guys though. But if you are the kind of guy that gets jealous easily, then it is better to stay off.

8. HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW HER?

Do not just jump into a relationship if you do not know so much about the lady involved. Many go into the relationship because they see how beautiful the lady is or the size of her body “assets”, so they make the wrong choices and the relationships tend not to last long.

9. BE YOURSELF, NOT WHO YOU THINK SHE WANT

Many make the mistake of conforming to what they think the lady really wants, not who they really are. That usually causes a lot of issues after asking her out and she accepts because you might not be able to continue with that for too long. Assuming you were acting like the funny kind of guy and she liked you for being funny and after she accepts your proposal, you are no longer funny, she might not have that spark again with you

10. MAKE YOUR MOVE

After you have checked all these things, then you can make your move in asking her out, it means you are ready.

If you have any that is not, you can add them in the comment section, I look forward to hearing from you all.

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